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People will change. That is the truth. Improving your attitude is a part of changing your life for the better. It does sound hard. When recovering from bullying some feel very angry and that is a part of putting it all behind you. Some people I met don’t even remember the bullies that hurt them. I do think it is a good thing because people do need to move on. However there are some people that like to hear your experience from what bullies did to you, some people do try to remember what happened so that they can teach others what to do and what not to do when it comes to these catastrophes.

But if you spend too much time thinking about what happened in the past you will miss out on current events, on living your life. What if you people have families and children. Moving on is way better than dwelling on the painful past. You should take the lessons the bullies taught you and use that for great use in life, and be happier in life. In some ways I am glad that I was bullied because I am now fully aware of the pain that follows, and I used that lesson to warn other kids about the dangers of what they might face in high school. I have dedicated my life to do this website to reach out to other people who have dealt with issues like this. There is a quote that I found when I was in high school. It was from a book that I had to read for the English courses there. The book was called Tuesdays with Morrie, written by Mitch Albom. The book featured a quote I never forgot. “Dying is just one thing to be sad about. Living unhappily is another thing.” It was said by the man who once taught Albom in collage. That man happened to be his teacher Morrie Schwartz. Who died in 1995 from complications with ALS. Despite the fight with this fatal illness Mr. Schwartz taught us the meaning of life and how we should enjoy it while we can. Mostly to enjoy it while you are in a happy mood.

You should all know that I am autistic, now with that said when I got bullied it was much more harder than what some might have gone through. Bullies and Autism are not the best of combinations. In my personal experience it damaged my self-esteem as well as understandings on certain types of jokes. One day at work there were some guys that said a joke, now I was not aware that they were joking so I got a bit defensive. Just then they told me it was all a joke so I told them I was autistic and they apologized. Again I learned something new that day. That new thing I learned was that some of those jokes in that kind of work environment workers will say some stuff that might seem hurtful and I just had to in some ways pay attention to what they are talking about before I jump to any conclusions.