No matter what bullies tell you, always be yourself. I know you might feel ashamed that you are who you are but the good part is, being yourself gets you through multiple different obstacles through out your life. I know things might seem too long but trust me it does not last as long as you might believe it.
Yes a lot of guys made fun of me for being who I was. But I didn’t know the right way to cope with it. Or how to cope. I chose the wrong way to cope. I made up a story of my life to try and escape what these awful bullies did to me. I didn’t like who I was so I pretended to be someone who I was completely not.
At school I acted like some hard as nails guy. Honestly I regret that because that is not me at all. I am a nice man with a large heart of gold. There is not a person on this planet who hasn’t lied about their life to cope with the pain and suffering from the bullies they faced.
There was a lady on Dr. Phil and she was a compulsive liar because of a traumatic disaster that she had faced. Now that I can relate to. Why? I did the same thing. I tried to live a story I was playing in my head over and over, and frankly it drove my mother and 2 sisters crazy because they tried to help and I refused to know or hear what they had to offer. I still feel bad that I didn’t listen to what they had to say. I even tear up just thinking about it.